We human beings are remarkably inconsistent between stating what we want to do versus making it happen. We may be clear on the outcome, but it’s deceptively easy to fall…

The Ten Social Demandments Antiquated, Outdated Social Expectations for “Well-Behaved” Women Thou Shalt . . . 1) . . . keep thyself home rather than attend any kind of event…

Months after my 21-year-old son Robbie died, I received a sympathy card from a distant friend explaining she hadn’t known what to say but could no longer be silent. I…

It’s April, my mom’s birthday month. Julie Allen was born on April 18, 1920. She was quite a character, and it took me syears to fully appreciate how unique she…

In March we celebrate International Women’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day, the much-adored Pi Day and more. For sports fans, there is March Madness and NFL season kickoff. Plus, of course,…

We all make all kinds of lists. For years now, I’ve listed cool stuff I’ve done in my life. Items are not in order, jotted down as they come to…

Happy new year! January is whizzing by. How are your resolutions going, or are they already gone? If you are struggling, here’s a practice that has worked for me since…

December is filled with holidays, many connected to faith or personal beliefs. Christmas songs fill the air as we shop for holiday gifts. The carols, the bells, the rituals encourage…

My life path is out of sync with most of my friends. I dropped out of high school and married young. I dreamed about one day getting an education, though…

The pandemic was a rude reminder that life can run off the rails. Maybe you, like me, found yourself forcibly enrolled in a masterclass of uncertainty, ambiguity and discord. Reactions…